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‘Recipes For Life’ Stirs Your Soul & Has Food Sketches From 30 Prominent Personalities
Vidya Balan’s ‘Adai’ to cricketer Mithali Raj’s ‘Sea Crab Curry’, Recipes For Life features prominent personalities & is an ode to traditional food wisdom! ‘Recipes For Life’ is a book that was waiting to be written. I’m not surprised that…
Neena Gupta: Based On What I Said Or Wore, I Was A ‘Behenji’ Or ‘Shameless’
Neena Gupta’s rise like a phoenix—bagging lead roles in films like Badhaai Ho, and The Last Color, and sweeping the Best Actress award in her sixties, is nothing short of inspiration. There’s something real and awe-inspiring about Neena Gupta. She’s…
These Delicious Biryani Recipes From Star Food Bloggers Will Spice Up Your Day
Every family has its own favourite biryani recipes. Here’s bringing you some lesser-known biryani recipes from very talented food bloggers. Sundays were our home’s official ‘Biryani day of the week’. Our home would be filled with the irresistible aromas of…
‘The Future Is Female In The Film Industry’ Says Bollywood Insider Anupama Chopra
Cinema’s magical powers and influence on our collective consciousness are undeniable. Bollywood industry insider Anupama Chopra talks about some gems in her new book A Place in My Heart. When it comes to Bollywood, there’s one name that stands out…
Priyanka Chopra On How Women Can Lose Jobs Due To Workplace Bullying
A change of environment, and even more importantly, being in a professional space where the same alleged bullies cannot affect her career, made Priyanka feel psychologically safe to speak her truth. Priyanka Chopra finally revealed why she spoke up now,…
Forced Into Submission By Lady Lithe: A Dark, Sinful Indulgence That’s Totally Worth It [#BookReview]
Forced Into Submission by Lady Lithe is not just erotica, it has a great plot that will keep you riveted beyond the sex scenes. A must read! There is so much taboo around women and sex in general. The labelling…
14 Amazing Benefits Of Flax Seeds For Indian Women
The benefits of flax seeds added to a woman’s diet are many. Here’s taking a look at how they are beneficial, and some easy recipes using flax seeds. Flax or Linseed is such a multi-purpose plant, its uses spanning from…
The Life & Times Of Usha Uthup, The Unconventional 80s Queen Of Indian Pop In A Saree
There was a conservative perception among Indian listeners that pop songs are just ‘hip hip hurray’ songs which make no sense. But Usha Uthup proved that pop is meaningful and powerful. Think of Usha Uthup and her long, illustrious career,…
Priyanka Chopra, KJo, SRK, And The Alleged ‘Bollywood Ban’ – What Went Wrong?
It’s well known how diplomatic and professional Priyanka Chopra is. Why would she want to stir the hornet’s nest when everyone’s happy in their personal space? Priyanka Chopra (PC) did something completely out of character. She’s usually known for being…
Yummy, Easy, And Healthy Chicken Recipes For Your Dinner Table
Chicken is one of the most versatile and rich sources of protein. Check this out for that healthy chicken recipe you want for a special dinner. Men love it. Women love it. Children love it. There’s no denying that the…
What Ranbir’s JOKE On Alia’s Pregnancy Weight Says About Insensitive, Body Shaming People
It’s hard to believe that Ranbir is oblivious to Alia’s body image and anxiety issues, after being her steady boyfriend for five years, and now husband. While this article might come across as nitpicking on a handsome not-so-young actor for…
Were Johnny’s Pockets And Connections Too Deep For Amber To Be Heard?
She didn’t stand a chance. The more powerful, less victimised male victim gets more support and a bigger payout; the less powerful, more violated female victim gets the backlash and has to pay. Trigger Warning: This deals with domestic violence,…
Let’s Cheer For Gutsy Breast Cancer Survivor Niyati Tamaskar and Her Tale!
Niyati Tamaskar writes about how she was ‘Unafraid’ despite breast cancer that struck her at a very vulnerable time – as a new mom with a breast-feeding infant. Little did I know that when I picked up Unafraid by Niyati…
Race 3 Sees Women As Eye Candies. Not Surprising!
Bollywood never ceases to shock us with the portrayal of women as merely eye-candies and second fiddle to the all powerful ‘hero’.Race 3 joins the long list of such moronic movies. Race 3 is an antithesis of the Race series.…
No Love Only Lust Between Men & Women — Does Neena Gupta Speak The Truth For Us?
Neena Gupta’s take on love between a man and woman opens a can of worms. She’s speaking her truth, which is a reality for so many people, but is it universal? Neena Gupta made a statement in her interview with…
Public v/s Private Breastfeeding
In July 2019, Taj Mahal created history for setting up the first baby feeding room among India’s 3,600 monuments. The Taj Mahal, considered among the new Seven Wonders of the World, is not just a symbol of eternal love, but…
Vishal Bhardwaj’s Movie Pataakha Is Refreshingly Carefree And Rebellious
Pataakha is the story of a rivalry between two ambitious sisters. It’s a sizzling firecracker with entertainment from the word go. One cannot typecast some movies into a specific box. Pataakha is one such movie. Once you open the box,…
Keep Calm And Mommy On – A Sparkling Debut Of India’s Parenting Bible! [#BookReview]
Keep Calm And Mommy On by Dr Tanu Shree Singh is a must read book for parenting in India, that can really help stressed moms and dads. Look no further! This might just be THE answer to all your parenting…
Dr Shalini Modi, Mother Of A Special Child, Says Acceptance, Love & Positivity Work Wonders
Meet Dr Shalini Modi, who rose up to the challenge of parenting a special child when her son was born. Her love and positivity shines through her words. Being a mother isn’t easy! More so, if you are chosen to…
Poorna: Hidden Gem Of A Movie About A Courageous Dalit Girl
Poorna, this real life story of a courageous 13 year old Dalit girl makes for a fascinating read and now, a full-length feature movie. In an age of outrageous Bollywood masala movies, Poorna: Courage Has No Limit comes as a…
The Shocking Truth About Gender Discrimination In Women’s Food In India
A staggering 70-75 % of Indian women between the ages of 15-49 are anaemic. Cultural taboos around women’s food and other traditions play a large part in this. Recently, my family attended a dinner function organised by a Muslim friend…
Let’s Look Beyond #MeToo ‘Coz It Hasn’t Really Worked For Indian Women Who Are Shamed But Perpetrators Roam Free…
Trigger Warning: This deals with violence against women, sexual abuse, gender based violence, child sexual abuse, and may be triggering for survivors. India doesn’t lack stringent laws as it grants more legislative ammunition for women’s rights compared to even America.…
“I Wish Our Educational System Was ADHD Friendly”: A Mom’s Story Told
What do U.S. Olympic champions like Michael Phelps, Simone Bilesand Caityln (formerly Bruce) Jenner have in common? Or Hollywood celebrities like Will Smith, Jiim Carrey, Justin Timberlake, Adam Levine, Paris Hilton, Will.i.am? Or entrepreneurs like Sir Richard Branson, David Neelman…
Priyanka Chopra’s Biography Reveals The Secrets Behind Her Global Success
In the biography Priyanka Chopra – The Incredible Story of a Global Bollywood Star, Aseem Chhabra, India’s leading film journalist attempts to find some answers to her worldwide success. The Global Indian Superstar Priyanka Chopra is everywhere. She is on…
Capturing Your Adventures: How to Save Travel Memories Creatively
Traveling is about more than just visiting new places, it’s about creating memories that last a lifetime. Whether it’s the breathtaking landscapes, unique cultures, or spontaneous moments with friends, each adventure is filled with moments worth preserving. But with so…
How Kareena Kapoor Khan’s Pregnancy Bible: The Ultimate Manual For Moms-To-Be is ‘Two Books-In-One’
I must confess that I was sceptical when I first picked up the book and wondered if Kareena’s pregnancy experiences would be whitewashed to make her seem extraordinary. I was glad to discover she didn’t go down that route. Essentially,…
Bengali webseries “Noshtoneer” highlights the less-discussed, more common #MeToo stories
I watched “Noshtoneer”, Season 1 & 2 back-to-back on Hoichoi thanks to SheTheSaga Founder, Vedaprana Puryakastha’s insightful post. Veda raised her concerns about raising a daughter and son. Citing the Bengali webseries “Noshtoneer”, she said how it can be tough…
Happiness is a butterfly and that’s okay
I’m a Swiftie and Nadine, my daughter is a Lanatic. Before you think we’re a lunatic mother-daughter duo, let me explain. My daughter and I couldn’t be more different in personalities. I like Taylor Swift while my daughter likes Lana…
When inspiring women fumble on feminism
I’ve been familiar with Nora Fatehi and her journey for a long time. So her statements on feminism on the BeerBiceps interview didn’t come as a surprise at all. Nora has always been a highly sharp and ambitious woman. What…
What has beauty to do with skin colour and poverty?
There was an old interview of Nushrat Bharucha, Hindi film actress, where she said she was rejected for “Slumdog Millionaire” because she was considered too good looking to play the role of a slum girl. Repeatedly, I see several biased…
The surprising joy of being sick
I had envisioned a relatively cooler Easter as it fell on March 31 this year. But little did I know this Easter would be one of the hottest ones I’d ever experienced. Hyderabad is a fiery furnace already. What was…
Being an old-school parent in the modern world
“Mummy! Why do you have to be so nice all the time? Why can’t you be like X’s mom and have a meanie expression on your face? “Mummy, why can’t we show-off too?” These are some questions my daughter asked…
Beneath the mask: The truth about kindness
Real-life Incident 1: 2016 Fellow lecturer: Politeness doesn’t work for our students. You’ve got to be strict and even rude. Also, what do you get by being kind to your students? None of them are going to help you in…
Are you the proverbial Tortoise or Hare in the modern world?
We’ve grown up on an emotionally healthy diet of fables that’s ingrained with timeless wisdom. Such as this Aesop’s Fable, The Hare & the Tortoise. Who hasn’t escaped this gem of a tale? Yet, many of us, including me, have…
Of writing styles, literary forms and my love for poetry
Writers are usually solitary creatures. Okay, we can be social too, bordering even on the wild side. But, hear me out! To be a writer, you need to cut off from the world, go inside, and write till you bleed.…
Kareena Kapoor Khan saves this Koffee episode from being a complete bore
So I watched my second Koffee episode this season with Kareena Kapoor and Alia Bhatt. Such a bore listening to privileged people talking about their silver spoon babies and their families. No offence, but it’s tedious to watch it for…
Koffee with Karan Season 8 with Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh: Is it real-life Gehraiyaan white-washed to be Hum Saath Saath Hain?
Is it real-life Gehraiyaan white-washed to be Hum Saath Saath Hain? Koffee with Karan Season 8 started with a bang and how! People cannot stop talking about the first episode with Deepika Padukone and Ranveer Singh. Here’s a quick roundup! …
How Saying “No” Turned Out To Be My Biggest Superpower At Work
I had the most difficult time saying “No” for the longest time. So, I said yes to everything that came my way (even when I didn’t want to do it) with a benevolent smile. Somehow I associated the word “No”…
Happinetz Site Blocker Helps With Safe Internet Browsing
As beautiful as parenting is, the fact remains that it’s a responsibility. You’re responsible for nurturing and protecting your children until they become responsible adults. Just when you think it’ll get easier, you realise that it only gets tougher. Much…
In the era of diversity and inclusion, why are we body shaming and age shaming Aishwarya Rai?
It’s concerning to note how we talk so much about diversity and inclusion, and in the same breath, shame women for something as natural as ageing. Aishwarya Rai has always been at the forefront of attention ever since her modelling…
Why Twinkle Khanna’s statement on being a bitch and not a bechari is problematic
It was an Instagram notification that birthed this article. One evening when I logged into the social media app, I got a notification where I was tagged in a comment by Niyati Tamaskar, author of “Unafraid” on Twinkle Khanna’s YouTube…
An Ode To Ichachan
September is special to me and if there’s one word I’d give it, it’d be Spiritual. Yesterday, Sep 8 was the Feast of Mother Mary, who’s a big influencer in my spiritual life. My mornings start with the Holy Rosary,…
Why Love Is The Greatest Gift Of All
“He loved constantly, instantly, spontaneously, without thought or words. That’s what he taught me. Love is not something you think about, it is a state in which you dwell. That was his gift.” – Christopher Moore, Lamb. Love. A simple…
Why Target And Judge Women Drinking When The Focus Should Be On Drinking Responsibly
There’s so much taboo around women drinking alcohol. Even today, in some circles. I can speak only about my experiences. I’m fortunate to have grown around people, especially women, who have a healthy attitude towards alcohol. Born in a typical…
10 International Songs Inspired By Indian Music
The Indian film industry, specifically Bollywood, has a bad reputation for being a notorious copycat. But in the recent years, the trend’s been reversing and by the looks of it, it’s here to stay. Here are 10 international songs that’ve…
Why Beauty is Not Skin Deep, But Soul Deep
I know many women who’re shamed for putting themselves first, especially after marriage and motherhood. Beauty, even more so, makeup, is seen as superficial. But beauty is not mere vanity. It’s sanity. Beauty is important, as it’s a sign of…
A Woman’s Dummy Guide To The Sacred Swearing-In Rituals
I had a virgin mouth, much longer than I’d lost my virginity. I’m cursed with a baby face and being the mother of a teenager hasn’t changed that. But, some people have the art of bringing the Annabelle out of…
EPISODE 1: Spill The Ink With Tina Sequeira | Aashisha Chakrabory
What happens when two writers come together? Sparks are bound to fly. We have a very special guest in our inaugural episode of “Spill The Ink” show with Aashisha Chakraborty. About Aashisha Chakraborty Aashisha is a PM-YUVA author and Write…
Eureka! Einstein Shahid Kapoor’s discoveries of marriage and life are so off the apple tree
Shahid Kapoor shared his thoughts on marriage in an interview with Film Companion. He said he finally figured it (marriage) all out. Marriage is how a woman enters a man’s life to ‘fix’ him. “This entire marriage thing is about…
Why Sonali Kulkarni’s apology is worse than her problematic speech
If Marathi and Hindi film actor Sonali Kulkarni’s speech on most modern Indian women being lazy left me shocked and enraged, her apology post left me deeply saddened. I’d shared my thoughts on her problematic speech in an earlier article.…
As much as I like Sona Mohapatra, here’s why I differ from her stance on women
As much as I like Sona Mohapatra, I am seriously wondering if she’s turning out to be a soft bully like Kangana Ranaut. What’s with the slut-shaming of other women from the film industry and calling them talentless? Seriously? You…
My 2022 Year In Review
It’s that time of the year again to reflect on the year gone by. Right away, if there’s one word that’d describe my 2022, it would be gratitude. I remember penning the year-end review exactly last year, this time with…
No One Told Me Parenting A Teenager Would Be A Humbling Experience
“Mummy, are you an astrologer?” my teen daughter asked. “No!” “How do you always know what’s going to happen in the future?” My daughter revealed how something I’d casually said a few months ago turned true. She laughed it off…
A question for the Maja Ma makers: Where is the love?
(Warning: Spoilers Ahead) I enjoyed watching “Maja Ma” thoroughly. I’d always been a diehard Sridevi fan and had never taken to Madhuri Dixit in her peak dancing heydays. But, I’ve been warming up to Madhuri Dixit, especially after her comeback…
Koffee with Karan Season 7 Episode 3: Beauty And The Beast
Looks like Karan Johar has been paying close attention to the backlash his current season is facing. And did some quick damage control by having Akshay Kumar and Samantha Ruth Prabhu’s interview as episode 3 of Karan Johar Koffee with…
My Top 10 Moments In The Koffee With Karan New Season 7 Inaugural Episode
For me, the Koffee With Karan show was getting insufferably predictable, boring, and even borderline mean in the last few seasons. There were a few exceptional guests though like Nargis Fakhri and Twinkle Khanna on Koffee With Karan who lend…
2022 Hair Care Routine You Need To Follow
Summers are here! As the sun’s scorching rays fall upon us, it highlights the need to shift and update your hair care regime. Under the summer sun, the prolonged sun exposure and excessive heat can damage your hair, cause dryness,…
And The Oscars Award For The Worst Joke Goes To….
The infamous Will Smith-Chris Rock controversy in the Oscars award 2022 will never die down. It’s tragic how celebrities we’ve always looked up to fall to such depraved standards. Will Smith, for me, is like the embarassing first crush that…
‘A Dark Brown Dog’ By Stephen Crane – Short Story Analysis
I bring you the ‘Read of the Day,’ a short story in English, so that we can indulge in the joy of reading together. You can visit my site for a short story with analysis and participate in the discussion…
The Haters Are At It Again! Stop Targeting Women Just Because You Think They Are The Soft Targets
Samantha Ruth Prabhu, who was the Telugu Film Industry’s sweetheart until her recent divorce with Naga Chaitanya, is again the target of hate for simply living her life. From various speculations that Samantha Ruth Prabhu in Pushpa, the pan India…
Will The Real Sanskari Man Please Stand Up?
It doesn’t take conservatives to get butt-hurt about the most random trivial things. Gehraiyaan movie is the new punching bag for conservatives for various reasons, from promoting infidelity in our society to it being a pornographic film and how Ranveer Singh can…
How Gehraiyaan Movie Fails The Bechdel test
Gehraiyaan is a mess. And not the kind of beautiful mess that’s highly esteemed in art forms like Kintsugi and Wabi-sabi. When you think of Gehraiyaan, visualize chicken broth with the choicest assortment of vegetables and herbs in a pressure…
My 2021 Year In Review
It’s that time of the year again! The time for reflection on the year gone by. My word for 2021 was “Wisdom,” and I think I have grown a bit wiser this year owing to the tough circumstances. If you’re interested…
It’s Not Easy To Find The Silver Lining. This Book Will Help You Find Your Happy Place!
The Holiday season is in full swing, and we are less than 45 days from entering a whole new year, 2022. While this is a cause of celebration for the Pollyannas of the world, many are suffering and smiling through…
Is The Pairing Of Older Men And Younger Women Onscreen Justified?
As I watched the horror of the remix of the song, “Tip Tip Barsa Pani,” I couldn’t help but wonder that the song would have been more apt, and nicer with Katrina Kaif and Vicky Kaushal, her rumoured boyfriend. Or…
What A Mother Wishes For Her Daughter? Here Are My Top 3 Wishes
I distinctly remember a conversation with a fellow mother while our 5-year old kids were playing together in the park. She asked me what my dreams were for my daughter when she grew up. I asked her to explain further,…
5 Simple Steps To Be A Better Writer
Learn how to write better and faster even if you’re not confident about your writing skills with these five simple tips. One of the most common questions I get asked is, “How do I write better?” I remember my first…
21 Best Women Empowerment Songs By Women That You Must Listen
Art can empower the world. Music, in particular, has the magic to move us to the core and wear any mood we want to. So, it’s not surprising that when I want to feel empowered, I turn to music. Here’s…
Top 5 Reasons Why You Should Not Be A Feminist
Nothing unites the world more than their mutual hatred for feminists. Let’s dig in the top 5 reasons everyone hates feminists and why you should never ever make the cardinal sin of being one. Let us explore the failures of feminism…
Feeling Overwhelmed With Social Media? These Five Tips May Help!
Here’s discussing the social networking disadvantages and advantages and how to use it effectively to build your personal brand and business. Social media is a double-edged sword. The sooner you realise this hard truth, the better it is for you. …
‘Snow, Glass, Apples’ by Neil Gaiman – Short Story Analysis
I bring you a ‘Read of the Day,’ a short story in English, so that we can indulge in the joy of reading. You can visit my site for a short story with analysis and participate in the discussion in…